Thursday, May 28, 2009

Thoughts on Solitude

"The world today does not understand the need to be alone.  How inexplicable it seems.  Anything else will be accepted as a better excuse.  If one sets aside time for a business appointment, a trip to the hairdresser, a social engagement, or a shopping expedition, that time is accepted as inviolable.  But if one says:  'I cannot come because that is my hour(s) to be alone,' one is considered rude, egotistical or strange.  What a commentary on our civilization, when being alone is considered suspect, when one has to apologize for it, make excuses, hide the fact that one practices it--like a secret vice!  
Actually, these are among the most important times in one's life--when one is alone.  Certain springs are tapped only when we are alone.  The artist knows he must be alone to create, the writer to work out his /her thoughts; the musician, to compose, the saint, to pray.  We need solitude in order find again the true essence of ourselves."

-Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Gift From the Sea (1955)

** Special thanks to Angie, designer/owner of Angelica Grace Designs,  for recommending this book to her blog readers (including me!).  I LOVED every page of it and have been recommending it to others endlessly!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Memorial Day Weekend in PICTURES :)

Family party day on Saturday at my Mom's...dinner with Blake & Laura on Saturday night in downtown Chicago...World's Largest Bratfest in Madison...BBQ with friends...
ALL = a WONDERFUL Memorial Day Weekend.
Thank you so much for everyone who was a part of it!
Hugs!
Kate

My cousin, Isabella, looking adorable and being a photographer. We were 'taking pictures' of one another here. She is a pro! :-)

Our nieces, Alyse Nicole & Jenna Daniela enjoying a snack on Grandma's Step.

"Little Girls Toes"-- Isabella, Jenna & Alyse 'posing'

Sandbox time! Liam, Isabella, Jenna & Alyse

Our brother-in-law, Steve, and our nephew (Steve's son), Liam.

Out to eat on Saturday night in downtown Chicago with Blake & Laura--celebrating their engagement and Blake's graduation. Congrats again guys!




Friday, May 22, 2009

Kelly & Spain

Kelly

"A ship in a port is safe, but that is not what ships are built for."
 - Benazir Bhutto 

This Wednesday night, Doug and I traveled to Chicago for a dinner to celebrate Doug's sister, Kelly, who is headed to Spain for a few months to live with a family, study Spanish, learn, grow, and simply have some fun memorable times.  We are so happy and excited for her--it will no doubt be an experience of a lifetime.  Doug and I will be following her journey with her brand new blogspot, www.kellydawes.blogspot.com.  Kelly is a fantastic writer, a talented photographer, and quite the experienced traveler (she has been to most of our world's continents multiple times).  So, we are--no doubt--looking forward to reading her posts, seeing her photos and watching how she is processing this experience.    Those who know me well, know how much my 'study abroad' experience in Latin America (Costa Rica, Guatemala, Cuba, Nicaragua and Panama) changed me and gave me a very different new perspective on many aspects of the the world (from government and religion to love and poverty).  Thus, I am always thrilled to watch and talk to those who have experienced something similar.  I have often said that you can travel all over the world for short periods of time and virtually be the same (I have been to about 20 countries),  but when you actually 'LIVE' in a very different place for a while with a very different family and surroundings...THAT is what changes you.  And change, however new and uncomfortable, is often a good and beautiful thing.  Here's to you, Kelly, and your adventurous spirit! 

Much Love, 
Doug, Katie y Baby Girl

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Thoughtful Thursday


"I have been through life and suffered a great deal, but I have had happy moments, as well. Every moment one lives is different from the other. The good, the bad, hardship, the joy, the tragedy, love and happiness are all interwoven into one single, indescribable whole that is called life. You cannot separate the good and the bad, and perhaps there is no need to do so."


-Jacqueline Kennedy

Sunday, May 10, 2009

CONGRATS BLAKE & LAURA!!!!


Woohoo!!!  Warm CONGRATULATIONS to Doug's brother, Blake, and our soon-to-be sister-in-law, Laura, who became ENGAGED this weekend!  It happened on a beach...at sunset...in Michigan, and we cannot wait to see pictures and hear about all the details!  We are SO happy for both of them, and we are so excited to be gaining such a wonderful sweet sister-in-law.  Laura is truly fantastic in every way.  

All our love to you both!

Doug, Kate, & Baby Girl Smith


Thursday, May 7, 2009

Special Thanks to a Special Mom :)





Here are just a few of the ways I am thankful for my special Mother on Mother’s Day J

I think I have a special Mom…the older I become the more I realize this truth. My Mom is someone that never puts any pressure on myself or Doug to do or be anything we are not. She accepts and respects us as we are and as we change and grow.  Thank you for being so accepting and loving, Mom!

Any time Doug and I have needed help with anything, my Mom is there offering to help (helping us move, helping us with house projects, etc.). She has NEVER had an attitude or made us feel like we ‘owe’ her. She is the kind of person and Mom that not just in her words, but through her actions genuinely loves you and put other’s first.  Thank you for being there to help, Mom!

Although we think of her this day, we don’t often see my Mom on the actual Mother’s Day holiday. My Mom (knowing our schedules and especially now that we are out of town) almost every year tells me/us that for her gift, she would like for Doug and I to stay home ‘take care of yourself, have fun and relax—that would make me most happy” (of course we still give her a gift!). She’s amazing---even on Mother’s Day she puts everyone else first and is interested in making them feel loved and special.  Mom, Thank you for being an example of selflessness…it is humbling and beautiful and we love you even more because of it!

My Mom works full time and commutes 3 hours a day on trains and buses, but she definitely still makes time and finds the energy to put everyone she loves in her life first (like her grandchildren). My sister told recently me that she was in a bind and needed a babysitter for the same evening and called my Mom for help at work. My Mom responded with “I set aside a certain amount of vacations days for just this situation. I’ll leave early and be there. ” Thank you for being such a great Grandma, Mom!

Every time my Mom visits, Doug says something along the lines of “When is your Mom coming back? I love it when she visits…she is so peaceful and relaxing to hang with and talk to.” I always think that is sweet, but sometimes it hits me how unusual that is to hear a son-in-law WANT their Mother-in-law around. In fact, I don’t know many people who can say that about their in-laws…period. I think this alone speaks VOLUMES about my Mom. She humbly loves people….in her actions more than words.  Thank you for being such a great Mother-in-law to Doug!

Mom, thank you for everything…for always helping and for being an example to both Doug and I of someone who loves through their actions and makes sacrifices with JOY. I am so grateful that you are in our lives and that you will be in our daugher’s life as well.

You are a wonderful, Mom!


MUCH Love! Happy Mama’s Day!
Doug, Katie & Baby Girl Smith

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Baby Smith is a.....



We are seeing PINK !!!!!!!

Thanks for your excitement and love!

Hugs!
Doug, Kate & Baby GIRL Smith :-)


Monday, May 4, 2009

Baby Bump Watch :) AND.....

TODAY is 'the' day Doug and I find out the gender of Baby Smith! :) We are SO excited for our appointment this afternoon! We have decided that we are going to have them put the gender results in an envelope and open it over dinner tonight... just the two of us (well, three of us counting Baby-lol) :) Before we announce the gender on our blog here, we are going to call all the people we promised (who asked) we would call first, and after we reach all of them, we will eventually announce it here. We have a lot of people to call! :) I know my parents and many members of our family and friends are waiting with baited breath today (my Mom has already emailed me twice this morning reminding me to 'please call'--lol) and so are we :-). We sincerely love and appreciate the excitement--thank you!!!

We also had a wonderful weekend in Chicago on Saturday and with my dear friend, Brooke, who stayed on Saturday night and visited all of yesterday. :) And on Friday night, Doug took some updated pictures of the 'Baby Bump' (I am almost at 20 weeks). I feel like JUST this last week we are really starting to see a bump and I'm starting to look a little more pregnant. I can definitely feel my ligaments and muscles stretching as the baby is doubling in size the next few weeks....WOW! Anyway, I tried to wear a similar outfit that I did during the first pictures we posted to highlight the difference from a month ago. ENJOY! ~ Kate <3